Can I Stop the Other Parent relocating with my Child

Can the Other Parent take & move away with my Child? 

Does a parent need the permission of the other parent to move away, relocating to live somewhere else with the child?

Generally, the Court cannot prevent a parent from relocating to live somewhere else, however the Court does have the power to stop a parent from taking their child to live with them if that will be some distance away from the other parent.

This issue may arise if a parent wants to move away, but may also arise if a parent moves away without either notifying the other parent, or perhaps against their wishes.

We’re on friendly terms: When should I worry about possible Relocation by the other parent

You have just separated, you are all living in the same area, nobody is thinking about relocation, you have reached agreement on living arrangements for the Children, it’s working and you do not want to rock the boat, you want to keep it amicable.



Or, you have some sort of agreement with your former partner for parenting arrangements and you don’t want to make them angry by trying to put it in writing or make it official.

Those are common situations.

Especially if you are the parent who doesn’t have your child living with you most of the time, you may have a niggling concern about the other parent taking their child to live with them somewhere else in the state (out of your general area or future away), or even in another state.

But things change:

  • A parent may want to move to where they have more family support or assistance;
  • They may want to move back to where they are originally from;
  • Your former partner will eventually get a new spouse. Their new partner might live somewhere else (especially in this age of internet dating);
  • Your former spouse will eventually re-partner and that new partner might get a job somewhere else;
  • The other parent may feel like they need a fresh start in a new location;
  • A parent might be offered a better job;
  • They might be offered a promotion in another area.

Any one of these things (or another reason entirely) could have you facing a situation where you wake up and find out your former partner has moved somewhere else without telling you.

People on the friendliest of terms will still look after themselves first and choose not to tell you something they know you won’t agree with, if they can get away with it.

The best time to get your former partner to agree to a clause preventing them from relocating is before their circumstances change and they start thinking about it.

They will usually be happy to agree to having Orders containing a clause preventing them from relocating if they do not intend to move anywhere else.

If you are on friendly terms, then it should be easy to get your agreement into Consent Orders.

If you have Consent Orders including a relocation clause then everyone knows where they stand and all cards are on the table.

If your former spouse does not want to have Consent Orders including a Relocation Clause, then you have to ask why not – are they hiding something or hedging their bets to keep options open for the future.

Simply doing a Parenting Plan (or any document other than Consent Orders) containing a clause preventing relocation will not be sufficient to protect you. For more, see our information sheets What is a Parenting Plan and Parenting Plans -v- Consent Orders.

Relocation – More Information

The sorts of things a Court wants to know, this issues and what a considers if they are deciding a case involving a parent who either has already moved away or who wants to move away, is explained in the information sheet How does a court decide Relocation cases if a parent moves away or wants to move away.

If you already have a Court Order or are getting a Court Order then you should also read our information sheet Court Orders & Relocation explained in full.

Our information sheet The other parent might Relocate: Do I need to do anything might also be helpful to you.

Relocation, Domestic & International Child Abduction: More Information

We also have the following pages providing additional information in relation to both Relocation of a Parent with a Child within Australia (domestically) and International Child Abduction:


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